To put it simply I’m an overachiever. I always have given myself lofty goals. I figure if I don’t try I don’t know. I can’t pin point exactly where it came from, neither of my parents were overachievers or even wanna be overachievers. My dad worked a corporate job he hated for thirty three years and my mom was a housewife. In hindsight it was probably the combination of the two of them. I never wanted to have a career like my father and I never wanted to wish I had the gumption to do something different like my mother. Even with men it took me until twenty nine to find someone who could keep up with me. I wasn’t going to settle. I wanted someone who could be my life partner and was willing to take some risks in life. I was a fun girl but anyone who ever dated me knew from the get go I was going to be a handful. Some who I never dated I just flat out scared from the start, they weren’t brave enough to go down that path.